Theodore Roosevelt on Courage: The Man in the Arena, and What He Actually Said

Theodore Roosevelt is one of the most quoted Americans who ever lived, and one of the most misquoted. Lines get trimmed, polished and pinned on him that he never said. That's a shame, because what he did say is better.

This piece sticks to his own words, taken from his speeches and his 1913 Autobiography, with the source for each. Then it asks the useful question: what does a man do with them?

He wasn't born brave

Start here, because it's the part most people skip. Roosevelt was a sickly, asthmatic boy. By his own account he was "nervous and distrustful of my own prowess" as a young man, and he says he "had to train myself painfully and laboriously not merely as regards my body but as regards my soul and spirit."

His method was simple. He'd read in a novel that a frightened man can act as if he isn't frightened until the act becomes real. So he tried it:

"There were all kinds of things of which I was afraid at first, ranging from grizzly bears to 'mean' horses and gun-fighters; but by acting as if I was not afraid I gradually ceased to be afraid." (An Autobiography, 1913, ch. II, "The Vigor of Life")

He adds: "Most men can have the same experience if they choose." That's the core of Roosevelt on courage. It isn't a gift. It's a habit, built by acting before you feel ready.

The man in the arena

The most famous passage comes from a speech called "Citizenship in a Republic," delivered at the Sorbonne in Paris on April 23, 1910. Here is the passage as the Theodore Roosevelt Center prints it:

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat."

You'll see this printed with small changes ("comes up short," "knew neither victory nor defeat"). The version above follows the Roosevelt Center's text.

Read the lines around it and the target is clear. Just before, Roosevelt warns against the man who confines himself "to criticism of the way others do what they themselves dare not even attempt." Just after, he says "the man who does nothing cuts the same sordid figure in the pages of history" whatever kind of man he is. The speech isn't really about critics. It's about you, and which side of the rail you stand on.

What to do with it: Notice how much of your week is spent commenting rather than doing. Opinions about how the boss, the team, the government or the guy at the gym should do it. Then pick one arena of your own, a business, a fight for your health, a hard conversation, and get in it. You'll stumble. That's the price of admission.

Dare mighty things

Eleven years earlier, in a speech to the Hamilton Club in Chicago on April 10, 1899, later published as "The Strenuous Life," he made the same case:

"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."

He opened that speech by saying he wished "to preach, not the doctrine of ignoble ease, but the doctrine of the strenuous life." That word "ignoble" matters. He wasn't against rest. He was against a life arranged entirely around avoiding discomfort.

The fear of living

Roosevelt wrote one of his best lines about courage in a chapter on home and family, not war:

"It is impossible to win the great prizes of life without running risks, and the greatest of all prizes are those connected with the home. No father and mother can hope to escape sorrow and anxiety, and there are dreadful moments when death comes very near those we love, even if for the time being it passes by. But life is a great adventure, and the worst of all fears is the fear of living." (An Autobiography, ch. IX, "Outdoors and Indoors")

He had lost his mother and his first wife on the same day in 1884. He knew what he was talking about. His conclusion wasn't to protect himself from loss. It was that a man who avoids every risk to avoid every grief ends up missing the life itself. That last line is printed on our Worst of All Fears tee.

Courage with manners

Roosevelt's courage was never just bravado. He paired it with restraint. In San Francisco on May 13, 1903, talking about how a nation should conduct itself, he said:

"Let us speak courteously, deal fairly, and keep ourselves armed and ready."

In the same speech he warned that a nation's show of strength "cannot be made by bluster; for bluster merely invites contempt."

And on fighting, from the chapter of his Autobiography on politics:

"Do not hit at all if it can be avoided; but never hit softly."

Restraint first, and a lot of it. Then, if the fight comes, commit. Courtesy without strength is weakness. Strength without courtesy is bullying. He wanted both.

Putting it together

Read Roosevelt's lines on courage side by side and you get a working code:

  1. Act before you feel brave. Fear fades with practice, not with waiting.
  2. Get in the arena. Criticism is cheap. Effort, with its stumbles, is what counts.
  3. Dare the big thing. A checkered record beats a blank one.
  4. Don't let the fear of loss shrink your life. The worst fear is the fear of living.
  5. Be courteous, be fair, be ready. And if you must fight, don't do it halfway.

None of this is complicated. All of it is hard. That's the point.

If these lines speak to you, our Teddy Roosevelt quote shirts carry a few of them in his own words. But the shirt is just a reminder. The arena is where it counts.


Sources: "Citizenship in a Republic," Sorbonne, Paris, April 23, 1910, text from the Theodore Roosevelt Center, Dickinson State University. "The Strenuous Life," Hamilton Club, Chicago, April 10, 1899, in The Strenuous Life (1900), Project Gutenberg #58821. An Autobiography (1913), Project Gutenberg #3335. Address at Mechanics' Pavilion, San Francisco, May 13, 1903, The American Presidency Project (UC Santa Barbara).